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More than once I've been asked what qualities I look for in any woman when I entertain thoughts of a relationship involving deep love.
Love is a communication code. Love is a two way street of communication. Love is to feel affection for someone, to hold dear, to cherish. Love is devotion, feelings, passion, and tenderness. It is to feel reverent adoration.
No male should ever wait until after the marriage vows to begin the two-way communication that should have been ongoing during the dating and engagement period.
Every male should have a check list of qualities he likes and qualities he does not like; a check list that he and his potential love discuss in detail early in any and every relationship.
From the beginning both parties must make it clear what each likes, dislikes, expects...and what each will not tolerate. Both must have a clear understanding that neither will ever tolerate abuse of "any" type of abuse or dishonesty or gambling. These should always be positive no nos.
It's very important that both individuals feel that they have the desire to form a partnership and always be a team as they share and work hard together as partners to achieve joint goals.
It is a lucky man who finds a true loving woman and it is a lucky woman that finds a true loving man. Any human that can capture this luck should cherish life and thank God.
But this gift is seldom achieved by luck alone. I feel that a lasting love is far more than sexual desires and enjoying just the physical beauty of a female. Therefore every one must carefully look for genuine elements of a lasting love.
Yes, I strongly feel that a well matched man and woman team can actually learn to love each other more and more through the years as they enjoy their marriage as a business deal and partnership with objectives and goals; which they carefully and energetically worked together on as partners to achieve.